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It’s happened to us all…

You’re attracted to a girl.

But there’s a problem…

She thinks you’re uglier than sin.

Is there anything you can do about it or are you out of luck?

Many experts will tell you that dating is a numbers game – if a woman isn’t attracted, cut your losses and move onto another girl.

Don’t do this. You are cutting yourself short.

Regardless of your physical appearance, you can use a few simple psychological tricks to generate attraction in her.

One of my favorite is called a “Tension Loop.” It was invented by the world famous seducer Swinggcat.

A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months – sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week’s show.

Within the context of dating and flirting, this tension becomes sexualized.

One of Swinggcat’s favorite Tension Loops is called “Push-Pull.”

Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally Push a woman away from you and then emotionally Pull her back in.

Each Push sparks emotional tension and each Pull releases it.

Let us take a look at an example…

Flatter a female with, “You have the most gorgeous smile I’ve seen tonight.”

She’ll gush, “Thank you.”

Then say, “Actually you have the fourth best smile I’ve seen tonight. I’m gonna call you number four.”

She’ll demand, “But I wanna be number one.”

Respond with, “For being feisty I’m promoting you to number three.”

She may whine, “But I wanna be # 1.”

Warn, “If you keep complaining I’m demoting you back down to # 4.

If you want to learn more Seduction Tips, I recommend visiting the world famous pick up artist Swinggcat. The man is a world class expert on Seduction.

Many a man has has spotted an attractive girl and thought to himself, “Wow, she’s got more legs than a bucket full of chicken.”

Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.

He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.

Maybe you’ve been there before? I know I have. I used to be so scared to pick up women that I’d imagine them pointing out all of my physical flaws. How cool is that – I’d reject myself before she got a chance to reject me.

Meeting and approaching women is no easy business for those who haven’t mastered the necessary skills. Let’s take a look at why this is so.

Most of the time, guys pick up girls for their beauty alone – and girls know this, my friend.

Half the time, even if you find them as sexy as a hemorrhoid , they’ll still think you’re trying to pick up on them.

This, of course, is about to change. So keep reading…

Watching most men approach an attractive woman is as depressing as a costume ball for demented children. The woman is like a pro fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped up, fried, and eaten for dinner.

He may still have some fight in him. But, alas, he doesn’t have a chance. (However, if she sees him as a piece of female eye-candy, there may be a glimmer of hope.)

Like other men, I’m also a fish – but a Parana jacked up on steroids. The moment they think they’ve hooked me in, I cast my pole and tempt them with irresistible bait.

They chomp down and – hot diggity – I’ve got them on my hook and I’m reeling them in.

Let’s look at an example. When at a bar, I’ll stand in a high-traffic area – e.g., near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio. When a girl walks by I’ll jut out my elbow making it next to impossible for her to avoid bumping into it.

And then in an overdramatic and offended tone I’ll utter: “Ow…you hurt me.”

A bit flustered, the lovely lady will put her hand on my shoulder and gush, “I’m so sorry.”

I’ll quip back with, “Before you can touch me, you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.

This emotionally hooks the woman into an interaction with you.

Once most guys find a woman attractive – usually within the first few seconds of meeting her – they start thinking of ways to get her approval, win her over, and prove themselves to her.

She’s got them on her emotional hook (and she’s well aware of it.) Any effort on their part to win her over is a bad sign she’s reeled them in even closer.

But I did the opposite: I set the frame that I’m the Prize and she’s the suitor trying to win me over.

In all sexual interactions, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can’t chase each other at the same time.

With few exception excluded, you want to set the frame that you’re the Prize and the woman is the suitor trying to win you over.

Josh Lubens, a world famous dating expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over ten years. At his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.